After a bad relationship that ended in July, I have been trying online dating.
So far I have met 4 guys and not one of these meetings has been good. Let me tell you about them.
Guy H
He seemed full on at the beginning and I was a little put off. He also lied about his age on his profile, which I was not amused at. But the first date went really well and I really liked him. We had all of the same interests, talking to him was fun and easy blah, blah, blah. Things got no better after this and on our 5th date he said that he just wanted to be friends, but that he didn’t want me to date other guys. After getting quite angry and a lengthy talk, he asked me to be his girlfriend (as is done in Japan). I said yes but was unsure about it, and we made plans for the following weekend and said goodnight. The following days I had no contact from him, so I emailed him asking if we were still going out on Sunday. He emailed me back saying nothing but “Sorry” and I hate all men.
The next guy I met we will be calling guy A. A is nice, a little awkward and nerdy and WAY to full on with the emailing me all the time. We went to see a movie and he asked if he could hold my hand (in the most round about way ever) I will tell you, because it’s funny and kind of cute. I had my hands in my pockets as we were walking to the station after the movie and he knocked my hand with his. I asked him what he was doing and he said nothing. Then he asked to see my hand so I showed him and he said ” Wow, your hands are really small. I’d better hold it for you.” We parted ways and made plans to go somewhere when work calms down for both of us, but he has been emailing me non-stop and I think we are meeting for tea tomorrow night. Watch this space, but I don’t think it will work.
Guy three is Sir K. I call him this because he was insanely posh. I think he is quite rich and he was a nice guy but not my type at all. He took me for yakiniku, to a really posh restaurant and was OK for talking too. Downsides were that his laugh got on my nerves, his way of talking was too patronising and he kept putting his arm around me and moving me through crowds. He emailed me this weekend and asked to go out but I’m not emailing him back, because I don’t want to.
Guy for is guy Y, who I met today. He was not a good looking in real life and was very effeminate and more clumsy than I am. I just got an email from him now saying that when I am free next, we should hang out. I think a polite “today was fun, let’s do it again” mail with no promises is what I will send back. We didn’t seem to have any of the same interests and he is a student and didn’t pay for anything…That sounds awful, but the other guys all paid for everything or at least 80%.
I also met up with a guy I met at a club 2 years ago. We went to the zoo and went drinking. He’s also not fantastic looking and he smokes…but we get along really well, but I know he doesn’t want to date me, which my head thinks is kind of a shame, but my heart thinks is about right, coz I don’t want to date him either. Lol.
I am worried I might be getting addicted to internet dating. But I there is no way for me to meet guys in my everyday life, so I don’t feel bad about it. After this week, however, I feel like I want a week long break from dates. Dating it tiring.